I CAN'T KICK MY SLEAZY SEX HELL

I'M A serial cheat. I’ve cheated on every woman I’ve ever known.

I even cheated on my first wife during our honeymoon.

She went up to bed with a headache on the fifth night, while I stayed in the bar and pulled. The other guests saw everything and were absolutely disgusted, but I didn’t care.

For me, the thrill of the chase was more than worth it. I got great sex with a gorgeous Spanish girl. Result!

Luckily my wife didn’t find out (that time) and we carried on with the holiday like a couple of fresh-faced lovers.

Granted, none of the other guests spoke to us again, but I covered that by saying that they were probably jealous of us.

Now I’m going through an extremely nasty divorce from my second wife and things are not good.

I cheated on her many times, including a passionate fling with her sister. Now I’m living in a grotty room in a rented flat and my life is utterly joyless.

I’m cold, miserable and broke. And, for the first time ever, I realise what a pig’s ear I’ve made of things.

I feel so guilty for messing up so many lives. I’ve broken hearts, I’ve broken up marriages and I’ve lost all credibility.

Even my best mate has ditched me after I asked him if I could have a crack at his ex-wife.

My parents have disowned me for not paying back the many loans they’ve made over the years and my own brother says that I disgust him.

blame everything on my massive sex drive and my inability to keep my trousers up.

I’m addicted to the thrill of the chase and sleazy sex.

My problem is that I can’t resist women. My current on/off girlfriend has given me so many last chances, it’s not true.

She doesn’t deserve all the grief I give her and I’m sure that she’s about to dump me any day.

Am I a lost cause? Because this just isn’t funny any more. Can anybody help me to sort my life out?

JANE SAYS: You’ve got to start taking some responsibility for your actions. It’s your life and it’s in your hands.

If the problem is that you’re a sex addict and you simply can’t control your libido, then you must visit your GP for advice.

Alternatively, if the reality is that you’re completely selfish and have no regard for other people’s feelings, then you’ve got to take steps to change.

You’ve got to face up to your failings and start exercising some self-control. Basically, you need to grow up.

You must view your situation as a wake-up call. You’re living in a grotty place, on your own, and could lose your girlfriend.

Is that how you wish to live the rest of your life? Cold, guilty and alone?

Start rebuilding bridges. Speak to your parents, apologise to all the people you’ve hurt.

Remember, it’s never too late to say: “I’m sorry”.

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